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Low Self Esteem - The Relationship Killer!
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Sun, 02 Nov 2008 09:42:54 -0800

Marriage Help - He Loves you, but he's not in Love with you Anymore!
What to do when this disheartening bombshell is dropped on you!
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Sat, 28 Jun 2008 09:37:39 -0700

The Secret Principles to Saving a Relationship That Every Woman Should Know!

You wake up one day and your relationship is shattered. Most of the passion that existed between the two of you is gone, and your mate tells you that they don't love you anymore. Maybe you've recently separated or are in the mists of a a relationship crisis. Even though it seems that the crisis appears suddenly, in many cases it does not. A relationship crisis usually builds slowly over time, with one person caught completely off guard, and the other claiming that they are tired of trying and trying, with no change. However, getting your mate to change themselves starts with you!
Step One: The Secret Principle for Removing Conflict and Hostility from a Relationship

Always agree. That's right! Even if you still think your partner is wrong!

If you talk about where they are wrong they become more wrong, and if you talk about where they are right they immediately become less wrong. You see, most people don't know that if you agree and sound sincere to the other person while refraining from defending yourself they will actually defend you! They will not only defend you, but in many cases will actually reverse their position. Now, I don't at all mean that you should agree to every request that your partner has and reduce your self respect to the bottomless pit of no return. I want you to agree with what they blame you for, in regard to the relationship crisis. I will admit that this is difficult, and you will be tempted to argue with and criticize your partner in an attempt to change them.

However, if you wish to save your relationship you must try and avoid this behavior by putting your emotions aside!

Your partner says, "You know I don't love you anymore, you don't understand me, and we never communicate." Your initial reaction would be to defend yourself by attacking their short comings! Avoid doing this at all costs!!!! Instead, try these two simple phrases; I agree, and I understand.

Tell them that you agree, and that you understand they've been asking you for a change, and you haven't given it to them!

Don't blame them for not wanting to be in the relationship any longer. You may at first feel like your moving toward ending the relationship, but really you are getting to the root of why they feel the relationship isn't working. They want the relationship to end because you're always disagreeing with and trying to change them, and they have asked you for a change, but you haven't given it to them.

Step Two: Change your Side of The Equation by overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs, Fears, and Insecurities.

When in the mists of a relationship crisis most people feel victimized and conclude that their partner is to blame. However, I have a different stance on this, which can best be exemplified by Bill Murray in the movie Ground Day. If you look closely there is a deep profound message here, for relationships. Murray the jaded weatherman is forced to step into the proverbial mud puddle day after day after day. His continued desperate attempts to break the cycle of reliving the same day again and again fail miserably, when he manipulates people and lies for his own self gratification. It is only when he begins to offer compassion, understanding and unconditional love that he got a different result. The lesson here is that nothing will change in our lives until we change from the inside out!

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Best wishes,

David Roppo
Relationship Coach

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